Overcome Fear

The Truth about Personal Transformation

Sometimes people ask me how I have gotten to this place in my life of absolute certainty about the coming of wonderful things that have not yet occurred, wonderful things that I fully and completely affirm to be true, even when most other people would look at a certain set of current circumstances and say that there is no evidence for what I affirm to be real. I’ll leave the specifics to your imagination.

I’ll tell you some of how I know what I know and will continue to affirm until others perceive what I do.

1. When it comes to my quest for personal transformation I have never given up. The reason I have never given up is because I received some extraordinary experiences that showed me very dramatically that what people call the real world is not the real world. And that has forever placed doubts into my very being about the reality of everything associated with the so-called real world. There are worlds that permeate and transcend the so-called real world that are infinitely more lasting than the so-called real world. I would that everyone had such experiences so that they too could have that which urges them to always press on toward the next horizon of experience and perception. In many ways I believe that all people have had or will have these kinds of experiences. I chose to take mine seriously and followed it where it has led thus far.

2. I have continuously experienced things on my journey that are infinitely better than what I hoped, expected, or imagined they would be. This has been a powerful aid in my transformation. To be constantly surprised by how much better thing really are than I thought they would be has helped me to distrust the thoughts and feelings that have bubbled up out of my fear-based way of being. I have come to question everything that is perceived through a fear-based lens. I have been wrong so often about how bad things will be that there is no point in focusing on fear-based possibilities anymore. Only unlimited possibilities are justified by my experiences, so to engage in fear-based addictions and patterns is a complete waste of my time and energy since they have been disproven way too many times to have any reality except as I have chosen to give them in any particular moment.

3. I have desired personal transformation more than anything else in my life. I have made it a priority for almost two decades. I have been blessed with the understanding that to experience the world I desire I must become the kind of person worthy of experiencing that world. In other words I must become the kind of person who can exert his influence and authority and power in such as way that the world bends itself to my will, desires, intentions, and very being. I have had to become a ruler of reality instead of a slave to fear. Certainty and absolute confidence in unlimited possibilities are what the world needs now as humanity struggles to free itself from the accretions of the past several millennia. I am happy to stand with all who desire to fashion the world according to their highest and best intentions.

And yes, I occasionally slip out of this kind of knowing and being. I am not a master at all times. I occasionally choose to indulge in a victim mentality as those injured aspects of my false self rise to the surface for healing and release. In the past I used to beat myself up for eac hof my failures to meansure up to some standard of perfection. Now I recognize that it is all part of the journey toward ever-expanding horizons.

The world is begging for us to get clear, focused, congruent and coherent in our thoughts, feelings, intentions and actions.

As we increasingly gain clarity, we will look back and wonder what took us so long to wake up. The truth is that we had to experience enough of our nightmares long enough so that we could believe in much better dreams.

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About the Author: Bill is a father, husband, personal coach, writer, speaker, and transformational leader.

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  1. “I have been wrong so often about how bad things will be that there is no point in focusing on fear-based possibilities anymore.”

    Fear is the antithesis of all that is good. When FDR said the only thing we have to fear is fear itself, he was, I think, alluding to a findamental spiritual principal, one of the few principals that is actually measurable by science in that fear produces chemicals and those chemicals a reaction in the body that causes us to react in a certain way. When fear is present, it may not help to simply ignor it but it is a kind of war cry that we much consciously subdue, contain and control until we can put the fear out of it’s own misery.

  2. Bill Frase says:

    Hi Joseph! Thanks for the comment! I believe that the research suggests that nearly everyone on the earth is addicted to fear. We are continually running unconscious, fear-based programs at many levels of our being. When it comes to overcoming fear, we must become more and more conscious of when our fear-based automatic programs are running. The best way I have found for myself is to identify linguistic and emotional markers of fear and then clear those fears as they arise. I have come to question many more of my thoughts and feelings as I have continued on this journey and this has helped to accellerate my progress.

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