For those who are students of the Law of Attraction, you know that in order for you to receive what you desire, you must allow it to come to you. You know that forcing and resisting only perpetuate the continuance of what you do not want.

So how, exactly, do we allow?

To allow our desires to come to us, we must release our energetic defenses related to those desires. And so the simple answer is to use energetic clearing techniques (either those employed by others or those you do on yourself. As a coach interested in empowering my clients as much as possible, I recommend developing an extensive toolkit of self-help clearing techniques that you can apply as soon as energetic defenses start powering up.

I am not opposed to bringing in the help and support of energetic clearing professionals and accepting other help and support. It’s just that I would prefer people be able to clear stuff that comes up as soon as possible, rather than needing to make an appointment with someone. You will make greater progress much more quickly and you will become much more self-sufficient when it comes to managing your personal energy fields.

Having said all of this, what does allowing feel like (because this really is the goal of all of this! Think about all of the circumstances and experiences you easily and effortlessly allow into your life right now. Perhaps you watch a favorite television show or prepare a particular kind of meal. Maybe it involves allowing others to do things for you. It could be doing an activity that you love. Whatever feelings you feel about these kinds of things that you easily allow, you can have the exact same feelings about other things that are currently more challenging like energizing and supportive relationships, plenty of money, great health and well-being, a comfortable and functional home, invigorating travel and new experiences, peace and joy, a sense of passion and purpose, et cetera.

We do not experience all of our desires because our defenses block what we do want and attract what we don’t want. When allowing a million dollars feels as easy and effortless as watching our favorite television show, we’ll have the million dollars. Until then, we will try to get a million dollars, and it won’t be very much fun. God didn’t choose to make our lives difficult. We have done that all by ourselves.

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One of the biggest blocks that keeps people from living their destiny (oh yeah, you’ve got a destiny) is their sense that they are not good enough. Most people have thoughts and feelings that go something like this:

 “I’m not worthy of fill in the blank.”

“Who do you think you are?”

“What makes you think you deserve that?”

 “I’m fill in the blank with a not-so-good thing.”

“I’ve made too many mistakes.”

“I can’t start over now.”

“I’m not fill in the blank enough.”

Does any of this sound familiar? Does any of this feel familiar? If it doesn’t, you’ve either already cleared it and your life is an absolute dream, or your “circuits as so jammed” (to borrow a phrase from Caroline Myss) that you don’t have a clue about the subconscious automated programs that are running your life.

I am writing this post to help you “get” two things:

1. To recognize that this is one of the biggest obstacles to most people achieving holistic success.
2. To connect you to your own inspiration enough to consciously let all of this garbage go.

Let me tell you something that you already know deep within you: any thoughts or feelings of unworthiness you experience have nothing to do with the truth or reality. God made you in God’s very own invisible image. You were made to perfection without any flaw or defect. I know this. Until you know it, I’m asking you to trust me on this one.

The other thing is that you can let these thoughts, feelings, intentions, and body sensations go—all of them. They are not truly a part of who you are. This is stuff you took on through interpreting various energies and circumstances in your life from the moment of conception until now. Just because they feel like they are a part of you, does not mean that they must always be true for you.

You can let them go, and you must let them go to have an absolutely amazing life. Why? Because if you don’t release them, you may be able to temporarily create the appearance of holistic success, but eventually these thoughts, feelings, intentions, and body sensations will cause you to create circumstances that will require you to let go of the appearances and face the truth of the heavy burden of the lies you have been carrying around but denying and suppressing.

So, I encourage you to recognize that this struggle is happening within you (if you weren’t already aware of it). I also encourage you to clear these patterns from you being at all levels (physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual). Until you let them go, you will not be allowed to give of yourself and serve others to the greatest extent possible. You will continue to try to live your life inside a small, dark cell of doubt and fear. You’ll become frustrated and depressed. Let go of these burdens! Set yourself free! On the other side of these fears is a life of incredible richness, love, peace, joy, and more good things than you can even imagine right now. Here’s to the next phase of your life! Cheers!!!

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 There are excellent reasons why people do not experience all of the money and abundance they desire. It all comes down to how their energy systems are set up. Most people have very strong defensive force fields that actually repel money and many other forms of abundance from coming to them. These very same force fields also attract circumstances that are not conducive to the experience of abundance.

One of the biggest force fields repelling money and attracting poverty are the frequencies of: “I’m not worthy. I’m not good enough. I’m a terrible/lousy/no-good/evil/selfish/despicable person.” These force fields are very common for many people.

Here are some of the dynamics of this particular energy system:

It attracts like energies to itself. Clinging to these kinds of energies will attract all kinds of like energies, experiences and perceptions. Let’s say that you have a creative idea that could give tremendous value to other people. If you have the “unworthy” force field in operation, you may take no action on the idea. You may start taking action on the idea, but stop because this particular force field often manifests itself as a fear of criticism.

It tends to keep us very small. Many of us are being called to be of service to many more people than we are currently serving. How can we truly serve anyone if we are unworthy? What could we possibly have to offer?

This energy pattern also tends to keep us thinking about what we can get or take from other people (without them realizing it, of course!) This is because we feel unworthy to receive it just because we asked for it and because of who we are. If we believe that we are unworthy, there is little or nothing of significant value that we can offer to others.

It drains power from your power core (spirit/soul). You will be more tired, have less energy, feel more depressed, and have many more situations that cause to think and feel unworthy things.

For many people it leads to excess weight (in it’s strongest manifestations, often morbid obesity), all manner of skin conditions, and other health- and hygiene-related issues that call for our attention and energy. Once again, the sense of our own unworthiness is being reinforced by these conditions.

This energy field is also particularly challenging because it so easily harmonizes with so many other restrictive force fields. One reason for this is because it is an energy system directly tied to our identity, our sense of who we are. This energy field is constantly sending us the message that we are unworthy. If we are inherently unworthy, then all kinds of other force fields can resonate with that energy. For example “I don’t deserve X. Who am I to even want Y?”

The law of displacement says that two energies cannot occupy the same space at the same time. So as long as anyone carries these kinds of energies around with them, other different, more enjoyable energies are going to find a lot of challenges getting into their lives because there’s no room for them to take up residence. There is no room at the inn.

This system of force fields is just one example. There is no need any longer for anyone to keep these energy systems running in their lives. There are so many tools and techniques available to help each and every one of us eliminate these defensive force fields and restrictive energy fields so that we can literally allow abundance in all of its forms to flood into our lives.

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